Hey, I have a problem because I went overboard with tarot and asking the same question to different people.
I know you shouldn't do that but well it happened hard. Well, about 2 months ago I asked about my current relationship if it will be good or if he wants to continue to be with me and the divination was very positive but of course I needed confirmation and I went to a few more people and those divinations continued to be positive until now. For about 2 weeks now these spreads have been very negative that there will definitely be nothing. The interval from the last positive divination to the negative one is maybe about a week. And I also asked several people and now everyone says that it will be bad. In such a short time nothing could happen to make it bad unless the other person in the relationship suddenly changed his attitude. Instead, I started to become negative and at the time of asking a question like if we will continue to meet or if he wants it I have negative emotions and fears inside me that he does not want it and the divination is negative. And before with these good positive decays I was rather calmer such without shaky emotions. I made myself confused because now I don't know which distribution will come true. Did he suddenly change his intentions and the cards show it, or did I exaggerate with the number of divinations and the cards begin to show my fears and not the real prognosis. I seem to see small signs that something has deteriorated between us but I have made myself more nervous towards him because of these negative decays. Please help me what to believe here because I have no idea if the former positive decay or the latter ones are more likely?
and by over divination on the same, can you change the course of events without your own actions?
Excessive focus on divination can lead to unnecessary stress and negativity, which in turn can affect your relationship. It is worth remembering that tarot is just a tool that should not completely determine your life. Your emotions when asking questions can affect the interpretation of the cards, so a negative attitude can lead to negative readings. Instead of relying on divination, focus on direct communication with your partner. Talk openly about your feelings. Remember that the future is not fixed - your actions affect the development of the relationship. If you feel that fortune telling is negatively affecting your well-being, consider taking a break from it and focus on reality.
Constantly asking the same question to the cards can lead to conflicting answers for several reasons. As @pajeczyna already wrote, our attitude and emotions during the distribution can affect the interpretation. The more often we ask, the more our fears or expectations can interfere with the reading. Also, the cards may start to reflect our inner anxiety instead of the actual situation.
Tarot can be addictive because it gives a false sense of control over the future. It is easy to fall into the trap of constantly looking for confirmation or new information. This can lead to obsessive thinking and detachment from reality. Instead of focusing on real actions and communication, a tarot addict may rely solely on the cards, which negatively affects relationships and decision-making. It is worth exercising moderation and treating tarot as a tool for reflection, not an oracle.
I would do a cleansing and give it a moment's pause ... it should return to the "truth".
@s-m You should not ask this question to the cards at all anymore, they are unlikely to give the correct answer.
