Rather, it's sending your energy to force someone to reciprocate your feelings that's a big stretch and unpleasant. The whole "romantic" thing, instead of showing love normally, is trying to bend the other person's will to his wishes. As if he were saying: "Love me because I want it that way, and your opinion doesn't matter!". Total dictatorship in love, an embarrassment. And then, when this "in love" passes a temporary eclipse, he may have trouble disenchanting this person. Because this one will continue under the influence of the imposed energy and love against his will. It is not good to play with someone's feelings in this way. It is definitely better to act honestly and not use any magic tricks. If someone loves someone, let him show it by normal means. And if the other party doesn't reciprocate those feelings, then you can't force them to do anything. I'd rather have a free choice than be bewitched by force!

Hello, I would like to share my unpleasant experience with love charms. Once, at the beginning of my "przypdora" with magic, I was young and naive. A couple of times I cast such charms, because I thought it was nothing bad. But the effect just terrified me. One couple I tried it on was together all the time, but they kept arguing and resented each other. However, they couldn't separate, as if something was holding them together in this toxic relationship. The other couple separated after a while, but this "enchanted" person still tried desperately to come back. She was unable to form a lasting relationship after that, as if she was still clinging to that former partner. To this day, I regret and am angry with myself for going along with it. It's a violation of someone's free will and that's just not the way to do it! If we love someone, we should desire their well-being, not just satisfy our own selfish needs and desires. Love is not enslavement. I learned this lesson painfully. Never again such things! I discourage anyone thinking about something like this. It's a simple way to destroy a relationship and ruin someone else's life.

I'll be honest, until recently I didn't believe in such things as love charms or rituals at all. It seemed to me to be some kind of nonsense and superstition.

But everything changed when my friend opened up to me. She had separated from her partner under very bad circumstances and for more than a year they had no contact with each other at all. All this time she was very depressed, you could see that she still couldn't forget about him. But I did not suspect that she would go as far as casting love charms.

And here all of a sudden this ex of hers called her back as if nothing had ever happened. What's more, he immediately asked if she was currently involved with someone. The next day he began to urge her very pushily to meet. He said it would be best if we did it now, because he just happened to be a car outside her work. His whole demeanor was unlike any I had ever known him to be.

When she told me about it, I had to admit that it was very unlikely myself. And then she confessed to me that two months earlier she had used some kind of love ritual. At first nothing happened, then she considered it foolishness. But then, all of a sudden, there was a twist and her ex spoke up after two months.

At first I laughed at it, then I was surprised. And now I'm trying to understand it all. I read about it, but nowhere can I find accounts of someone succeeding and living happily ever after such a ritual. This makes me uneasy. My fiancée and I tried for a year to help a friend get out of this depression after the breakup. We are now afraid that her situation will only get worse....

Your friend's situation is very delicate. Love charms and black magic are no good. Such practices may seem attractive, but in reality they are very dangerous. You see, casting charms is a violation of someone's free will. It may bring temporary results, but in the long run it will only ruin the relationship.

True love must be based on mutual trust and respect, not manipulation and enslavement. If one already wants to use the services of magic practitioners, I strongly recommend focusing only on white magic. Its purpose is to attract positive energies and open up to happiness, not to force something by force.

In the case of your friend, I am afraid that the situation may become complicated. Her ex-partner may feel the effects of the charm cast, and their relationship will become very toxic. Therefore, it is important for you to be a great support for her. She needs to understand that true love cannot be forced on anyone with charms. If their relationship is to survive, it must be based on sincerity and mutual acceptance. I wish you much strength in solving this problem. Remember, black magic is never a good solution. 

I have such a question - according to you, is a complete layman, someone very keen on the return of the former partner, is able to effectively cast such a love charm? Does a person unaccustomed to such practices have enough power, skill and determination to make such a thing work?

@pajeczyna Maybe you can advise me - I did a ritual with the candle "Lovers" for the last full moon, but mistakenly ordered pink, not red. I did it for myself and for him, because he passed away, although our bond was great. According to what you write, that the effects can appear after 2-3 months - then I should not do another ritual on the next full moon, but wait? It seems to me that he kind of went away because of another charm...he doesn't know how to deal with it. We were very much in love, connected on every level and with plans for the future. With my ritual, I am not hurting any third person, I am not selfish - I just love him, and he seemed even more loving than me, he declared all the treasures of the cosmos to me...and suddenly it broke off in a minute. I would appreciate your advice.

I still have a question about the power of rituals. Do they get weaker with time?

And does anyone know what the person on whom the ritual is done feels?