You don't want her to fall in love with you, but you want her to always remember you?

It's kind of mutually exclusive, don't you think?

Interfering with someone's will is a bad idea. You can only do more harm.

P.S..

But actually, what exactly are you going to do?

@moonwalkerka AND do you have any experience when it comes to magic?

@bies I'm not super experienced, but I see that if I believe in something strongly, it works for me. It's enough that I really want something or imagine it in my head.

What I mean is that I mega love a certain guitarist from a not very famous band. I'm not going to put any magic spells or anything into this bracelet, but it would be great if, for example, he would remember my name, get to know me at concerts and see me as more than just a fan (by the way, I hate that word, it sounds like 'fanatic').

Ey, but it's not an idol or anything. I just think this guy is brilliant on guitar and I totally adore him :> you get the point.

@moonwalkerka 1. how do you know that he will wear this bracelet, and not give it to, for example, his girlfriend, colleague or even his dog, if he happens to get the idea? It could end up quite unexpected, especially when it comes to the "magical" effects associated with this bracelet ^^

You want this musician to make you feel special and raise your self-esteem.

But this is not a good way, because in this way you will spend your whole life depending on a man and his attitude towards you.

How old are you? Believe me, with age and experience you'll understand that you don't have to rely on someone else to feel valuable 🙂

2 As for charms and spells - this is also a matter of the cost of such an activity. Now you may want it, but what will you do when in a year you are past fascination with this musician?

The charm will continue to work, and you may have trouble arranging your life. Are you ready to live like this, to pay for trying to tie it to yourself?

When you are 30 or 40 years old, will you still love this musician? Will you then need his recognition and memory of you?

It's your life and your decisions, but think carefully about whether it's worth it.

@bies 1 I think he will keep this bracelet. Even if he doesn't wear it every day, I'm sure he will keep it.

I am still young, but I realize the consequences of magic and such things. So when I'm ready for a serious relationship, I'm not going to support it with any charms 🙂 .

2 I have known them for a long time and you can say that I have been ''glowing'' with them for a long time. I've had plenty of time to think it all over and that's why I didn't decide to love him. Besides, he is married, and for me it matters the vow that ''what God has joined together, let man not separate.'' If he is happy, then I am too. Although it is known that many married musicians have a groupie 🙂 .

Anyway... I just want to feel special.

Make a friendship bracelet or macramé.

@pajeczyna But I already have a bracelet, even two identical ones, one is for me 😀

Clean them with smoke from a red candle and rub them with rose oil, with the idea that he will not forget you and will think of you.

Oh great, finally something practical, thanks a lot for the answer!

I'm afraid that without understanding the mechanisms of operation and without proper training, the result may be poor.

You can try, but it is better to start by reading literature on magic in the forum. By then, this person may have grown over you and you will become interested in something new, but that's how it goes in life. One thing is certain - change is inevitable.

@bies A friend wanted the recipe, she got it 🙂

And how it comes out is less important.

If something goes wrong, blame the ineffective or poorly chosen spells, and that's it 😉 .

@trida She will blame the person who suggested it or the magic, but definitely not herself. Unfortunately, the problem lies with her, which is why the magic act may not work.

@trida I think the rose oil will overwhelm him. As for the so called candle magic, it rather works like NLP and I still think that without intimacy he won't be remembered, but it's good that you gave her this "recipe" - at least she'll be calmer for a while 😉 .

@pajeczyna I see no need to give more advanced techniques (due to lack of experience and awareness of the consequences). Candles are fine.

@trida Do you think he will be married to me?

@moonwalkerka Do you really think a ring on your finger will stop some celebrities?

I don't know your idol, but I'm pretty sure that yes, he could pick you if the opportunity arose, etc. etc. etc.

I don't know what to do anymore myself

@moonwalkerka let go of this type of game.