Don't look for a curse by force, because really few people today know how to cast one so that it works.

Posted by: @furion81

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I once hurt someone badly and now maybe it's getting revenge.

So, according to you, this person would have the opportunity to cast a curse, or maybe even have someone who knows about it do it, for a fee?

And have you wondered if maybe when you start getting involved, you become possessive or too pushy? Or maybe you just end up with women who are not interested in a serious relationship? (In the case of 'friends with benefits' it's obvious that she might have backed off...). You may think you're behaving the same way, but it doesn't have to be true.

If the answer to the first question is 'yes' and to the others 'no', then perhaps someone here will find the time to check if there is indeed something going on. In the meantime, you can read a bit about methods of dealing with curses and charms.

@seid No tak, może się wydawać, że jestem przyklejuch, ale tak naprawdę zawsze daję dużo wolności w związku. Nie jestem zaborczy ani zazdrosny, nie pochłaniam ich czasu ani nie stawiam ograniczeń. Co do przyjaciół z korzyściami, to ona nie uciekła, ale dużo się zmieniło, a ja nigdy nie dałem jej poczuć nic więcej niż przyjaźń. Jeśli chodzi o to pierwsze pytanie, to słowa, które utkwiły mi w pamięci ze łzami w oczach - "obyś był zawsze tak szczęśliwy jak ja teraz" - jakoś pasują do tego, co mnie spotyka. Dodam jeszcze, że moja mama zajmuje się tarotem i 99% jej przepowiedni się sprawdzało. Zawsze jakieś związki mi wychodzą, a cards ostrzegają mnie przed nimi. Dlatego od 7 lat nie pozwoliłem sobie wróżyć.

What if you try to fall in love first, get more emotionally involved, and only then think about sex?

You'll see what happens then.

@pajeczyna I've already tried to fall in love first and only then think about sex, and the result was identical. Sex is not the most important thing for me. I have repeatedly avoided such situations, ba, I even kept celibate for a year to convince myself, but still the moment I start feeling for someone more, everything falls apart. I know, it sounds ridiculous, and some people will probably say that I'm doing something wrong, etc. But I don't rush anything, I don't demand anything, I just take what they give me and behave normally. I try to live like everyone else, not looking for anything by force. However, for the past 3 years I have been avoiding any commitment, because then nothing breaks. Still, even though I know how to tell myself that I mustn't get involved and I avoid everything that could lead to that, I'm only human, not a rock of ice, and I always end up the same way. I know because it sits in my head, but on the outside I am the same as I was before the feelings appeared.

Maybe some psychoanalysis of your behavior? Or psychotherapy?

You didn't immediately assume that this is a magical action, did you? Do you perhaps have someone in mind who could "bestow" a curse on you in this way?

@furion81 

Sometimes ancestors unknowingly leave us such debts to pay. They may be rejected , forgotten or excluded people from the family. If you would search in history you might find, for example, that a great-grandfather rejected love(or an illegitimate child). And the men in the family have no luck in love, the women leave ...Maybe it is worth looking for a person who deals with the healing of family karma ?

@seid Psychoza na pewno nie jest przyczyną. Ale to drugie - klątwa, wydaje się bardzo prawdopodobne! Dlaczego tak uważasz? Bo nie da się tego wyjaśnić w racjonalny sposób, a sytuacja powtarza się bez względu na to, co robisz. Taka sytuacja nie jest normalna. Wiesz, że inni mogą cię uważać za dziwoła czy nieudacznika, ale może to ty masz rację, a ci, którzy cię osądzają, się mylą? Lista potencjalnych sprawców nie jest długa, ale istnieją przynajmniej 3 osoby, które mogłyby to zrobić - 2 kobiety i mężczyzna, który cię kiedyś natrętnie prześladował. Może któraś z nich miała ku temu możliwości i powody? Jedna z tych kobiet mieszkała w Łysej Górze, gdzie podobno żyją ludzie obdarzeni paranormalnymi mocami. To tylko przypuszczenia, ale sam czujesz, że to co ci się przytrafia, nie jest normalne. Byłeś u psychologów i poza wysokim IQ nic niepokojącego nie wykryli - bez rozdwojenia jaźni, zachowań aspołecznych czy innych zaburzeń poza lekkimi załamaniami z powodu tej sytuacji. A wierzysz w zjawiska paranormalne i ghosts, bo sam kilka razy doświadczyłeś czegoś niezwykłego. Jak prawie 2 lata temu w Londynie, gdy odwiedziła cię babcia, by się pożegnać. 20 minut później zadzwonili z domu i już wiedziałeś, że umarła - powiedziałeś o tym siostrze, zanim ona zdążyła przekazać wiadomość. Więc dlaczego ludziom tak ciężko uwierzyć w coś, co inni przeczuwają? Zamiast spróbować zrozumieć, doradzić i pomóc, zaprzeczają czemuś, w co sami wierzą.

@mist Is it possible to get out of this somehow?

@furion81 There is nothing to boast of a high intelligence quotient, while seeking help on a forum for esoteric enthusiasts among "esomaniacs"?

I believe in ghosts and that they can come to say goodbye, ask for forgiveness or permission, or even appear on someone's behalf. I know of frightening cases of such phenomena. I myself often dream of the dead - of family and friends. After such dreams I feel terribly tired and exhausted. There is certainly some truth in this.

Maybe you're just getting too caught up in this situation with failed relationships? Because what you focus on with your thoughts is what you attract into your life. There is a saying "as you bed, so you sleep". Maybe you yourself once acted inappropriately toward others and are now paying for it?

Another explanation could be that there is a lot of negative energy or unfriendly beings swirling around you (we don't know because you didn't give enough details), and you have something to work off karma.

This is just my "I think so".... based on a few posts without accurate information, it's hard to say anything for sure.

@furion81 You're miles of concepts!

Psychoanalysis and psychotherapy is not simply a consultation with a random psychologist. It is specialized help from a qualified doctor or psychologist who has the right background to effectively counsel you.

Given your high IQ, you will surely find a more rational and constructive explanation for this situation than the unlikely curse theory.

Sorry, I was not bragging, but I see that I actually made a mistake, writing for help. Do you guys know something about me? I wasn't bragging. Let me explain something. I was born on 14/02/1981, and at the age of the first grade of elementary school I manifested mirror images (I should add that I am left-handed). In order to learn and write, I was switched to my right hand (which was a nightmare). Instead, I have an amazing visual and auditory memory. In high school I spent one year in meetings and tests to confirm that I had dysgraphia and some symptoms of dyslexia. Even then I was found to have a high IQ. I enjoy reading books, and despite a strictly mathematical mind, I write poetry and finish books. I have a phlegmatic character with a dose of choleric - I never explode until it builds up. I'm not vindictive, but if someone loses their way, I cut myself off from such people and say "no" to them in a firm way. My way of being is between a realist and a modernist romantic. I never judge people by their appearance or by who they are. More by how they behave and what they have inside. I would only add that any person with a higher IQ is a potential lunatic. So much for my point.

Back to the delicatessen. The girl he was with (he loved her to madness) dumped him for me. He couldn't get over it for a period of more than 6 months. When I tried to talk to him, he threatened. He hated me and I realize that. Ba, I never break up relationships, that's my rule, and she didn't tell me about him. It came out over time. I never shot on two fronts and did not cheat on my partner. Sometimes it worked out that way, despite the initial fascination, something ended. Sometimes we became acquaintances, and sometimes it happened to hurt someone deeply. In two cases even too much, and being with someone out of pity will not do any good, and there is no point in dragging it out. I generally follow the principle of "live and let others live". If you need more data, I will be happy to provide. Unfortunately, I do not remember the name of this amant. As for the names of the girls - one is Sylvia, and the other is Anna. Unfortunately, I do not remember their names. It was a long time ago.

@furion81 Perhaps in your intelligence lies the root of the problem? People with high IQs often find it difficult to form relationships, because human relationships do not easily lend themselves to rigid logic.

High intelligence (IQ) does not necessarily go hand in hand with high emotional intelligence (EQ), which can cause you to overlook your mistakes or not understand your actions, leading to relationship breakdowns. It would definitely be more effective to consult a psychoanalyst instead of looking for the cause in curses. Even if this disappoints you, it's worth knowing that looking for curses can lead you into the snares of scammers who will want to make money by offering to "remove the curse."

Pay attention to it maybe 😉

@cobalt Talking about my problems with a professional who deals with this on a daily basis, and trying to find a way out of the situation, was unsuccessful. The analysis of one of my relationships that we conducted yielded no results. According to the specialist, nothing was sticking. You can't be very close to someone and within a week, for no reason at all, change your attitude 180 degrees, leave and be lonely. Her behavior was not due to meeting someone new, family or work problems.

@furion81 You are left to visit another specialist (make sure he is competent) and analyze all your relationships. It is difficult to identify a recurring pattern from just one case 🙂

@cobalt This person has more than 30 years of experience in the profession, she helps people with relationship problems on a daily basis (and is effective at it), and also supports people in picking themselves up after failures in life. He has known me for more than 20 years and I have email contact with her. He was the one who advised me to write during depressive states. He also noticed that I find it difficult to get in touch with people with much lower IQs, and in such relationships I quickly get bored and leave.

@furion81 It appears that this specialist may not have a broad enough perspective, since he decided to handle the case of someone he knows personally. A professional approach usually involves referring an acquaintance to another expert who has no prior relationship with that person. The lack of a personal relationship allows a more objective assessment of the situation and avoids potential conflicts of interest 🙂

@cobalt Only this specialist managed to reach me. Simply put, I have many layers and barriers that are difficult to penetrate. Although difficult to manage, it is possible, but it is solely my decision whether I open up or not. I don't let anyone manipulate me, nor do I try to manipulate others myself. In relationships I show my true self, while outside of them I always present a different version of myself.

@furion81 I understand that the situation is complicated.

I'm wondering if you are looking for a concrete solution to your problems, or if you just need to confide in someone? Do you want to share how difficult your life is, how you are trying to be honest, and yet you are facing setbacks?

Sometimes just expressing your feelings and frustrations can bring relief. However, if you're hoping for specific help, why not think about exactly what kind of support you need?

@furion81 Suggesting psychosis in this situation seems too hasty.

The key question is: did you create this thread to get an objective assessment of the situation, or are you looking for confirmation of your belief in being cursed? It is worth remembering that the mere feeling of being cursed is not proof of a curse. In most cases where people believe they are cursed, there is no real evidence to support the theory.

How about looking at the situation from a different perspective and considering alternative explanations for the difficulties experienced?

It seems that the real purpose of creating this thread was to boast about his alleged sexual achievements and high intelligence quotient.